I need to continue to practice, practice, practice patience and restraint! But I will add no more creatures to my tank as long as these are well! I've also cut back on feeding. In the past couple of weeks, I likely fed them daily, a small dose of "Rod's Food", a frozen slushie of all sorts of marine life. I only gave them a pinch and aimed it mostly at the anemone and corals. I also added a boost of calcium and alkalinity for the corals and both are at optimum levels. I've also shot a few live brine shrimp into the tank a time or two. I haven't fed them today and they sure are acting like they're starving, as usual.
I'm also realizing that neurosis and paranoia are also qualities that I'm developing!
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