Thought I'd follow up with my failure.
Siphoning didn't work. I tried a 3/4" ID hose, run back to the sump through a filter sock. With just the hose, the clumps are too big and clog it. I switched to the wide mouth siphon tube and it picked up lots of sand, but the stuff I'm trying to remove is heavy and falls back to the sand bed.
The tank looks like crap, my fish are pissed, the water is cloudy from me kicking up the sand and I'm just about sick of dealing with this issue. If I don't stir this stuff up twice a day, it gets so thick on the sand that it breaks up in clumps.
I'm about ready to re-home my fish, which I would miss dearly, and sell my corals. If I wouldn't take such a huge hit on the equipment, I would just sell this setup and do something else. I've got so much invested at this point though I can't. There has to be an answer.
Next up is a blackout to see if it will have any effect. I doubt it will, but I gotta try something.