Ohhh okay so an update.
When my ex fiance and I broke up in June, he had nowhere to live (I own the house). He also had no money. So I let him stay at the house, and I moved out for about 3 or 4 months. (I still paid all the bills at the house to allow him to save up his money so he could get a place of his own).
During that time, he was taking care of all the pets (they stayed at the house obviously), including the tank.
Well, he doesn't really know how to take care of a tank. But I honestly had more important things on my plate, so things started to slip. I ended up getting rid of 99% of the corals, because they were just going to die without any attention. I kept the rocks and the fish, and that's where my tank is at now.
I have a ton of store credit from stuff that I brought in, and am planning on taking down the tank over the next couple months. I already have a friend that said he'd buy it and almost everything that comes with it. I also found homes for almost all my fish.
I plan on using that store credit to buy Parrotchute a few boxes of nice things from my LFS to thank him for sending me his corals a couple years ago before he went to Iraq.
The tricky thing is finding the time and energy to take down the tank. I was only taken off of bed rest by my doctor a week ago, and still am feeling pretty crappy. But this is a project that needs to get done soon, because I just don't have the time and energy to deal with an aquarium right now, and I certainly won't when the baby comes. And my tank is plumbed through the living room wall, and all the equipment is in the room behind the living room -- and god, I could really use that space now!
I will be sad to take down my tank -- I've had most of my fish for 11 or 12 years now, and I'm very attached to them. But I'm so busy working full time, and working on my (third) master's at the same time (which takes up most of my evenings and all of my weekends), now with a *surprise* baby on the way, something has to give. I'm not going to quit my job, I'm not going to quit school, so the tank has to go.
And hopefully some of my four hundred and sixty seven pets will die nice, natural, peaceful deaths between now and August as well, because gosh it would be nice to have a more simple life right about now!! :rofl:
It's not like I can just get rid of my pets -- they are my family and I love them, and I've had them all a long time. But two dogs, six cats and two guinea pigs are a lot of work. So I'm just saying... If the big man in the sky thinks it's some of their time to go, I will be sad, but at the same time, relieved. :mrgreen:
I thought for sure my ancient cat BK was about to kick the bucket two weeks ago. He has been old and sick for a while, and has been on meds for arthritis and hyperthyroidism for years, and he was just going downhill. So I took him to the vet, and he gets put on antibiotics, and lo and behold, good as new four days later, hahaha! Don't get me wrong -- I'm happy he's okay. But five cats and a newborn sounds much better than six cats and a newborn. ;)