Starry Blenny question seeking help!


Reefing newb
Hi, I am looking for a mated pair of Starry Blenny's. Has anyone here ever come across a pair? I am having trouble finding them in SoCal. All I can find are single ones. Also I need to find info on the difference between the male and female. I have read about the difference in the anal fin but it is hard for me to really tell. the websites with info is really obscure. Any guidance to where I could find them would be much appreciated. Thanks.