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Haha, gotta love the marital tradeoffs/manipulations! Getting DIY leds would be an awesome accomplishment, I'm impressed if you can finagle that, I'm going to have to take lessons from you. Right now I'm happy with getting a screen for the top built and since the tank is a point of contention in the house instead of asking outright I went the sneaky route; "hey, some of these fish jump I guess, so I need some sort of lid for this thing." He didn't say anything and he didn't look up from the t.v. So I gently prodded, "YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYIN'? They jump out." My sweet tone got his attention and he looked at the tank and shrugged, "maybe a piece of plexiglass." I pursed my lips, pretending to consider it. "hmmm, needs to get air into it still." I waited a beat, playing dumb. Finally he said, "A screen? Would a screen work?" I nodded vigorously, "what a GREAT idea. Hmmm, but you probably couldn't build a screen that would fit on the tank though huh?" He said, defensively, "of COURSE I could." Then I just stared at him, cause I had him where I wanted him. And he put down the remote and went to Home Depot. So now he's happily hammering away in the garage.Yay!! New tank! Congrats! Can't wait to see it all set up! This hobby's all about give and take....I gave my hubby a mancave, he got to build me a tank stand. I bought him new tools, and he helped me drill the holes leading to the sump room :D And now, I've encouraged him to take home broken electronics to tinker with, with the hope that one day, I'll get my DIY'd led's :D IMHO, your hubby made out like a bandit with that Hamburger Helper!!
I always find it best to let them think it's their own idea. And if you can call into question their ability they will 9 times out of 10 fall over themselves to prove that you were wrong to doubt them.